Embracing is a way of nurturing yourself could be the key to letting go of childhood trauma. The embrace of something external feels and seems better than something internal. However, embracing internally is much better when you do it right. This could be driven by your own emotions or somebody else’s. This could be the flow of the waves in your life that try to take you away but instead, you embrace them. It’s the ultimate way of finding your security, and it’s even better when you know how to do it in alignment.
Now, what do I mean by that? Just a quick breakdown, alignment is when you are high. The same feeling a drug gives you. The same feeling you have if you have sex (correctly). It makes you feel in total BLISS without the drug. That is alignment. However, waves, twists, and turns hit you in life to where you’re out of alignment. Now, it’s time to embrace those twists and turns with your own will. It’s time to work with the twists and turns and adapt to its changes, which helps you learn how to align with them.
A good example is being in traffic. Somebody has cut you off to where you are between cars, and your rear and front are hit. How do you react? Angry? Scared? Once you react, it is based on your perspective of the whole thing. Will you respond with a bitter and fearful attitude? Or Nah? Now, everything around you that comes forth will only reinforce that perspective because that is what you’re projecting, and that is the reflected you. Now, let’s say you want to manifest a feeling of an embrace. They never tell you this, but you can display a perspective. Let’s say you change your perspective. How would you mother a child that is angry and scared? What attitude should the child have after you comfort them? In my opinion, if I were to comfort my child, I would want them to feel like they’re safe again, and there’s no reason to be afraid. That would be my new perspective. You have to do that with yourself. It’s okay if you don’t know how to love yourself yet or if you don’t know how to get into alignment—however, your whole perspective changes when you think of a child and nurture that child-like yourself.
With this perspective, you maintained an embrace of the wreck.
I know this sounds unreal, but this is when you try. This is the “trying” that brings you that much closer to your potential in all life situations. The trying that makes your life easy instead of hard. You are working on YOURSELF and focusing on how you react. The more reactions you find to control in yourself, the less suffering you have. You will be in a living hell if you don’t figure this out. Why? Because it is the reason you suffer from things that you do. This is when you permit yourself to experience anger and being scared vs. being happy. When you ask, why does this happen to me? And God doesn’t answer your prayers. This is why! You allowed it! For those that are religious, you wouldn’t even hear God until you realigned. For those that are non-religious, you wouldn’t even understand your intuition until you realigned. I mean, damn, wouldn’t it be so much better – So much more freeing to know what to do the first time, rather than having a chain of suffering reactions because you reacted in a perspective of suffering and ended up making situations worse. Your poor inner child is crying, and you’re almost dead/suppressed now because you were sucked into a reactive perspective. Don’t let that happen. Be free.
Although, you (consciously or subconsciously) chose to suffer and decided to be out of control of yourself and your emotions. There is a way to get out of it. Once again, you must align first – start with the child’s perspective and fix your own mistake. There are so many more benefits when you embrace your child to align yourself. The benefits of embracing yourself and realignment are solutions. Always being in control OF YOU and the big bad wolf can never blow your house down.
It’s easier for you to hear, understand, and take action correctly. In the way you know is correct, not someone else’s “correctness.” Not only that, but even after you were startled for that short moment, you still came back quickly to a state of bliss after the car wreck. This is all possible, but you have to embrace it. Embracing your inner child quickly leads to alignment. You are embracing the waves of anger and nurturing them back to health. Then, adopting the perspective of the healed inner child will lead to alignment.
This is also a way of saying that you are grounded in all you do. To always know what you want, and it’s all possible if you permit yourself to do so. Eventually, you embrace yourself in every situation. If you love yourself enough or want to learn more about yourself, it would be ideal to go to places that invoke waves of twists and turns. This is seen as a form of exposure therapy. Use this type of exposure therapy to discover what needs to be embraced. The illusion can be your playground. I do it this way because I like to take my challenges head-on and immerse myself in the experience. It helps me not only detach from the illusion but desensitizes me from any/all bullshit with ease. Another way is that you can always be in control of yourself, without preparation of inducing an experience, and when that time comes, you embrace it with grace.
Embrace practice can even be used with people. The way you judge them, the actions that they do that make you mad, watching the news with disgust, having a family member die, a break-up. Comfort your inner child (or pretend external child) of that feeling. Nurture yourself back to health, embrace the pain in yourself so you can know the solution, and then apply that to all life.
